Recently i have been accused for nothing which is TOTALLY none of my business!!! 'sigh~'
Now i started to realize that if you give too much ... ppl starts to take it for granted and it's time for me to pull back.
So happens i watched this programme hosted by Quan Yifeng & Guo Liang interviewing David Chiang & his wife (Li linlin). She has mentioned that she used to remember occasion dates like friends' birthday, beloved birthdays, anniversarry and etc....but now she has take it easy on all these. Her one bad experience is that she used to spend time on choosing greeting cards & gifts for her husband ,but for him, he will just take a look on the card and reply "orrh... thkx"... and the gift will lie there for months untouched... she then starts to ignore all these occasions as she thinks that all these are not appreciated .. eventually the husband was the one who will remind her and ask where to celebrate and ....^-^....see... if you do something good for someone ... they will not appreciate but take it for granted... but if you stop.... they will start to realize and i'm sure they will regret.... 'sigh~' again
pathetic~!!! :(
Nice... I've learn something :p
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